Several years ago during an annual meeting of missionaries, Dr. John Marshall, pastor of the incredibly missions focused, Second Baptist Church, Springfield, MO, spoke 4 words that have forever changed my view of life and as I strive to approach missionary task! He simply stated, "above all else,
personal holiness matters most."
When the average career missionary or volunteer begins to think about their participation in the missionary task, thoughts typically race to what am I going to do and how am I going to do it. However, if our strategy and plans are not an overflow of how God is working in our life, we will only be going through the motions, feeling empty and unfulfilled as we work harder and harder in our own power desperately seeking to see more only to come face to face with less. Take it from one who has been there way too many times, personal holiness does matter most.
To be perfectly honest with you, I seriously doubt any of you will read here anything that you do not already know. And to continue with the honesty, if you are like me, I still need to be reminded of the basics from time to time. What I am about to share comes from a fellow traveler and not from one who has arrived. Just ask those who know me.
"I will vindicate the holiness of My great name which has been profaned among the nations, which you have profaned in their midst. The the nations will know that I am the Lord", declares the Lord God, "when I prove Myself holy among you in their sight." Ezekiel 36:23
Are you living your life in such a way that God can indeed reveal His holiness through you? If God is going to use you or us in His work to bring a lost world into fellowship with Him, our lives will need to reflect His Holiness and His Character. In 1 Peter 1:16 Paul reminds us of Gods words to Israel found in the book of Leviticus, that we are, to be holy because God is holy. Unfortunately, we are living in a world today where the distinction between those chosen by God and those yet in a personal relationship with Jesus Christ is harder and harder to distinguish. Consider the following results from surveys done by George Barna of Barna Research Group:
1. When youth were asked to comment on their church experience, the least common outcome among churched young people was that they had not understood enough of the Bible so that every decision you make is based on biblical principles.
2. Many Christians today are more concerned about looking silly or stupid more than they are about acting sinfully. More and more Christian lives are lived using God language but void of Biblical content. Research done by George Barna indicathat that less than 6% of evangelical Christiansinthe U.S. live with a biblical worldview. This means that they are making their decisions based upon something other than the principles of Gods Word.
In recent years, even our own agency has faced a significant increase in the number of forced terminations of missionaries for moral failures. Add to this the known increase of those who claim some addiction addction to Internet pornography and we soon realize that we only see the tip of the iceberg.
So what does it mean to live a life that reveals the holiness of God to the nations? Have we profaned the name of God before our people group, just as Israel did in days of old? What makes the Christian life different from those who have yet to believe? Does personal holiness matter? Believing that personal holiness does matter, lets look at five habits that lead us to being more holy in our daily life.
Five Habits of People Who Strive to Live Holy Lives:There are no secret formulas or magical phrases you can say that make your life a holy life. However, the life of Christ as read in the pages of the New Testament reveals and models habits that we can incorporate into our lives that will lead us to holy living. Lets look at 5 habits of Christ that can begin to change your life immediately if you incorporate them and practice them.
The basic outline and thoughts were taken from Ken Blanchard and Phil Hodges' book, The Servant Leader, highlighted in blue. My personal thoughts are intermingled.1SolitudeSpending time alone with God in a quiet place. Jesus, on a regular basis withdrew from the crowds and sometimes even from his disciples to be alone with God, His Father. This habit is essential if we desire to experience spiritual renewal and refreshment.
When did Christ do this?Before he faced the temptations of Satan, Jesus spend 40 days and nights alone in the dessert. (Matthew 4:1-11)Before he chose the 12 men who would follow Him for the next 3 years, he spent the entire night alone in the dessert hills. (Luke 6:12)When he felt the need to move to another town to preach the Gospel instead of staying and healing more of the sick, he left early in the morning to a place of solitude. (Matthew 1:35)When he heard the news concerning the death of John the Baptist, he took a boat to a lonely place. (Matthew 14:13)After feeding 5,000 on a hillside he retreated to another mountain alone, to be by Himself. (Matthew 14:23)Solitude is being alone, outside the sphere of human contact and communication. We are constantly bombarded with noise of some kind. With modern technology we have lost the grandeur and the intimacy of silence in our lives.
The Christian philosopher Pascal has been quoted as saying, I have discovered that all the unhappiness of men arises from one single fact, that they are unable to stay quiet in their room.One of the greatest spiritual accomplishments one can achieve is the ability to do nothing. The Psalmist stated it this way, Be still and know that I am God
., but dont stop there. The rest of Psalms 46:10 says, Be still and know that I am God; I wil l be exalted among the heathen, I will be exalted on the earth. All this arises from being still and quiet before a Holy God? Wow!
Ken Blanchard, the author of the best selling book, The One-Minute Manager, now a born again Christian says,
The cure for too much to do is solitude and silence, for there you find that you are safely more than what you do. And a cure for loneliness is solitude and silence, for there you discover in how many ways you are never alone."We need to take time every day to be alone with God, in silence. Solitude is the first step to a life of holiness.
2-- PrayerPhilippians 4:6-7 says, Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.
Simply put, prayer is listening and talking with God. I want to be sure you do not miss the listening aspect of prayer. Many times we see prayer as just us talking and God listening, however, it is more important that we listen to what He has to say to us.
Effective and meaningful praying will also incorporate other spiritual disciplines such as Scripture reading, meditation, worship, and yes, fasting, a long forgotten discipline that is essential for intimacy with our Lord.
Matthew 26:41 has Jesus saying, Watch and pray so that you will not fall into temptation. There is no holiness revealed in our life but that, which is an outflow of a deep and intimate relationship with our creator. If we would spend more time seeking Gods wisdom rather than depending on the opinions of family, friends, and co-workers, we would better know His heart and His desires for our lives. This is not to suggest that seeking the counsel of others is not needed, only a reminder that the only opinion that really counts is Gods opinion. It is His holiness we wish to capture and nothing else.
One caution: You cannot listen to God and know His leading for your life outside of Scripture. God will never tell you to do anything that is contrary to Scripture. Plus, you do not have to pray about what God has already commanded us in Scripture to do.
Knowing about prayer and talking about prayer is never a substitute for praying. Prayer will lead us to live more holy lives.
3-- Storing Up God's WordThe third habit that will lead us to a more holy life is that of storing up Gods Word, that is, Scripture memory. It is impossible to fully describe the benefits both present and future that will be yours from the habit and disciple of memorizing Scripture. In times of crisis or stress, is your first response reliance on Gods Word, or something else? When others challenge your faith, can you reply from Scripture or do you share your opinion?
Now many of you, like me, probably use the excuse, well you know I just dont have the memory that I once had when I was younger and this is really difficult for me to do. Let me use a Greek word in response to this excuse. The word is baloney. We remember what we want to remember and where we put our time and energy to remember. What night does your favorite TV show come on and which channel? What are the lyrics to you favorite song? Can you reproduce your favorite recipe from memory? Or better yet, can you tell us your favorite joke? We remember what we want to remember, but it will take effort and work and a lot of repetition.
Storing up Gods Word in your heart and your mind, prepares you like nothing else when life squeezes you like that tube of toothpaste. What you have put in will be what comes out. Psalm 119:11 reminds us, Thy word have hid in my heart that I might not sin against thee. If you wish to know the heart of God, read what He says in His word. If you want to know the heart of man, listen as well as to what comes forth out of his mouth. Is holiness revealed in your life and in your words?
4-- Faith in Unconditional LoveOf all of the habits that we see in the life of Jesus Christ, this one may be the toughest one of all for us to emulate. Unconditional love is like a coin that has two sides, which cannot be separated.
a. Accepting that God unconditionally loves you. b. Unconditionally loving others as God has revealed His love to you.How many of you who are parents love your children? Most all parents will say yes to this. Now, how many of you love your children only if they are successful? Very few parents would say yes to this question. The love for a child is unconditional and rarely depends upon what that child does or does not do in life. When we begin to place requirements for our love onto others, we have then moved away from the unconditional love God requires from us.John 3:16, how precious these words, For God so loved the world, that He gave his only Son, that whosoever believes in Him shall not perish, but will have eternal life. Think of the people you come in contact with every day. Everyone around you needs to be heard, encouraged, forgiven, accepted, guided, loved, and the list goes on. Who in Scripture does God tell us that we have a right to ignore, despise, not forgive, avoid, or not love? Jesus taught its easy to love those who love you, but what about our enemies? In Luke 6:32 we read, And if you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? For even sinners love those who love them.
One way our people group and our world can see the holiness of God in our lives will be if we unconditionally love our neighbor. Jesus did not spend his time with the loved, but with those who were unloved, outcast, and rejected. They will know we are Christians by our love. We will exhibit the holiness of God when we love unconditionally.
5-- Accountability Relationships"The unexamined life is not worth living." Ralph Neighbor We each have an intrinsic need to share our vulnerabilities, receive support and encouragement, and to be held accountable. I really like Proverbs 27:6 which says, Wounds from a friend can be trusted, but an enemy multiplies kisses.
We need to find people in our lives that will become truth-tellers for us. This one habit will have tremendous impact on your spiritual growth. It has wisely been said, Who you will be five years from now will be directly impacted by the books you read and the people you meet. We can take this principle even further and say how you will live and express your Christian faith five years from now will be determined by how much time you spend in Scripture and by those whom you allow to tell you the truth about your life.
We need people in our lives that help reveal to us blind spots. Too often when confronted by these people our first reaction is to kill the messenger rather than listen to the message. Probably the most dramatic Biblical example of this is found in 2 Samuel 12. In this story Nathan reveals to King David his sin with Bathsheba. How different David's life would be had Nathan tried to rationalize and smooth over what David had done.
Now obviously Jesus did not need someone to reveal to Him faults or other failings in His life. However, Jesus did model this habit by bringing close to him several of the disciples who walked with him during tough times.
So, it is really easy to see that personal holiness is the most important aspect of your life as a Christian and as a missionary. Your relationship with Christ needs constant monitoring as you face lifes challenges on daily basis. There are no short cuts, no time savers, and there is no a neutral position where you can avoid dealing with holiness issues. If we indeed want to impact a lost world, it will begin from within.
Personal holiness matters most!
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